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California School system guided by the ignorant

The Kindergarten Readiness Act, or Senate Bill 1381, moves that minimum age cutoff for admittance into kindergarten to Nov. 1 for the 2012-13 school year. The age cutoff will shift again in the 2013-2014 school year, mandating that children must turn 5 by Oct. 1 to enroll in traditional kindergarten. For the 2014-2015 school year, a child must turn 5 before Sept. 1 to enroll in traditional kindergarten.

Teacher happy they have less responsiblity to teach

This is the most dumb change made in the history of changes.  To cut budget they are messing with the future of our children.  Entering my children into the school system in the state of California has been a difficult challenge.  In the state of Florida I had ALL four of my children in school.  My one year old in a daycare that had actual structure for teaching them basic counting and language, my three year in preschool, my four year old in pre-k, my six year old in Kindergarten.  Coming to California I am told my three year does not qualify for preschool something about a cut off of November 17th, her birthday is 3 days later and hell there is no pre-k for my four year old. They found him space in preschool that is clearly where my 3 year old should be.  My kindergartner went from school all day where she had physical education, art, music, library, computer skills lab, breakfast and lunch in the cafeteria to California 3 hours a day morning or evening classroom and no other classes to offer her in the short amount of time.

These teachers say children with November birthdays struggle the most or not ready because they can’t sit down.  Correction you are lazy in your efforts to teach these children and your attention span can’t go beyond 3 hours.  Children are behind in California not because of their age but the lack of real teachers and classroom hours.  How can you expect a child to learn in three hours, with the first hour lost on getting settled into the classroom.  Where are the variety of classes that they will have entering first grade.  They are expected to attend class all day in first grade when they have only attended 3 hours in kindergarten.  Kindergarten is suppose to be a child right of passage into real school instead here specifically in the Fremont school district of California it is just overflow preschool.  Lunch time for the children are optional, I mean it is play or eat literally.  How could a transitional program be new when duh kids would have ALWAYS needed to be transitioned into kindergarten.

I am tired of budget cuts for education.  Cut the budget where it is needed not where more money should be.

”You have a high number of kids who haven’t attended any kind of preschool experience,” Kaup said. “This drastically affects how well kids do.” THIS IS BECAUSE YOU WON’T LET THEM IN PRESCHOOL! LET THEM IN AND THEY WILL HAVE THE EXPERIENCE DUH DOESN’T TAKE A ROCKET SCIENTIST.

I use to be on the side of teachers and not cutting budgets there but maybe if some gave a damn about teaching the students and not oh your birthday is one day late so your brain can’t possibly grasp letter A they would see better results.  A child growth and development is not only the responsibility of the parent but a reflection of the teacher as well.  Can anyone tell me if a group of parents complain about a teacher lack of teaching and responsiveness to the students to the district and yet that teacher remains employed, how can your child succeed?  How can they move past the horrible kindergarten experience and excel in first grade and beyond. Somewhere the blame has to stop falling on our children and the parents and put it where it really belongs on the instructors who lack their duties.  Teach a child and they will thrive at their own past.  Some may need that extra help and that is what special education use to be for now we just keep delaying our children to enter into school relying on the parents to teach them.

I am not a teacher but I believe in education and do not play or except failure from my kids.  It is one of the areas I am hardest on them.  I don’t baby talk them so they can pick up language early.  I have school of mom time with them so they can learn.  Are there any other parents out there upset with their school system and seek change.  The way they are moving is not the right move and parents need to take a stand.  Take an active roll and stand up for your child right to learn and be properly educated by those who have taken on the roll of teacher.

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An added Hero! Kaitlin Roig

First Grade Teacher who saved her classThank You Kaitlin Roig

First Grade Teacher who saved her class
Thank You Kaitlin Roig

Kaitling Roig is a first grade teacher at Sandy Hook Elementary.  Kaitlin managed to save her class by burricadding them in a small bathroom.  She comforted the children during the gunfire.  She said she doesn’t know if it is ok for a teacher to cross the boundaries in telling them she loved them.  Kaitlin in this case you did the RIGHT thing.  I agree with her not wanting the gunfire to be the last thing the children heard but someone telling them that they were loved.

Hearing her and seeing her so emotional just brings tears to my eyes.  For the first time I struggle with writing as my emotions are running rapid.  I applaud you Kaitlin and send hugs to you and your family from afar.

Even the survivors of the children and adults need our prayers.  This is something these children and teachers, school staff will have to deal with.  The lives lost, the children and people saved. You did not cross a boundary you were being the children advocate.  At that moment you were being the teacher so many of us parents wish we had in the classroom.  Teacher forget or often have to push their emotion to the side because your class is only your class for the year and you are not suppose to show emotion.


Watch her interview:Kaitlin Roig Interview

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Names Released of Victims at Sandy Hook Elementary

Our Prayers are with you

Our Prayers are with you

I released this last night on my Facebook page but for those of you that don’t have my Facebook here are the names of the victims lost in the horrific tragedy Friday at Sandy Hook Elementary School.  Keep everyone in your prayers at this time of grief.

Dawn Hochsprung (principal), 47

Mary Sherlach (school psychologist), 56

Victoria Soto (first grade teacher), 27

Charlotte Bacon, 6

Daniel Barden, 7

Rachel Davino, 29

Olivia Engel, 6

Josephine Gay, 7

Ana M. Marquez-Greene, 6

Dylan Hockley, 6

Madeline F. Hsu, 6

Catherine V Hubbard, 6

Chase Kowalski, 7

Jesse Lewis, 6

James Mattioli, 6

Grace McDonnell, 7

Anne Marie Murphy, 52

Emile Parker, 6

Jack Pinto, 6

Noah Pozner, 6

Caroline Previdi, 6

Jessica Rekos, 6

Avielle Richman, 6

Lauren Russeau, 30

Benjamin Wheeler, 6

Allison N. Wyatt, 6

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Newton Connecticut Tragedy

I just want to say a quick blurb.

Worst fear of a parent is to loose a child, do get that phone call or view on the news that your child school has had a shooting and innocent lives lost.  My heart truly goes out to ALL involved in this event that took place and makes you realize that extra hug, kiss, or words mommy/daddy love you, is NECESSARY.  If you are one of those parents that don’t tell your child EVERYDAY you love them make sure today is the day that you START. LaKhaela, Lamar Jr., Lakaia, Leroy mommy love you more than words can ever express.

If you know someone who is hurting, depressed, step in get involved.  You can save lives.  It is not ok for us the people to continue to be afraid to say hey that person needs help, they are talking of harming themselves or others.  Suicide is real, often times if they don’t harm themselves their emotions are to much to bare and over take any common sense in their heads.  If they are reaching out reach back.  I don’t know the situation in Newton Connecticut but I certainly can’t nor do I want to imagine the pain these families are feeling.

According to the Associated Press: Official: Police are questioning Ryan Lanza, 24, of Hoboken, older brother of Connecticut shooting suspect Adam Lanza. -SS

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Alert the Authorities!

This video has rubbed me the wrong way. I CAUTION you before watching this video that this will either upset you, make your stomach turn, or having you reaching for the phone to call child protective services yourself.

I put this up here because I am serious the authorities need to find these people and put a stop to it.  I mean for an adult to film a BABY who is even still in diapers having SEX with an ADULT is beyond me.  I can’t even figure the right words for this.  The baby pulls out his penis from the top of his diaper and proceeds to humping this adult female.  Granted she has panties on but she says hold on flips over for the baby to simulate fucking her in the doggy style position.

The video is a little over a minute but long enough to know this is child porn.  The baby is really trying to get inside of her and uses his mouth to move her panties out the way and then she pushes his head down into her vagina.  I don’t know where this video takes place but English is not being spoken in the background as the adults are laughing at what is taken place.  I am not sure if the child’s mother is involved and surely hope that neither one of the women videoing are laying in bed with this child is the parent or a parent for that matter.  Please ALERT THE AUTHORITIES!

No I am not participating in passing this video along for laughs, OMG, but that the proper people will see it and get on to saving this child from that home. The power of the internet, social media needs to take place for the right reason.  They monitor Facebook and arrest people on threats I want to hear A BREAKING STORY THAT FACEBOOK DID SOME GOOD IN SAVING THIS CHILD BY ALERTING THE AUTHORITIES.

True I don’t know these people call it what you want this is wrong, beyond sickening and needs to be stopped immediately.

Disgusting Video Alert Child Protective Services!

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The right to be straight!

So our president is supporting Gay’s!

Yes he knew exactly when to do this to get votes in my opinion.  There is a mass of followers in this category and it is a good campaign strategy.  However, I have just read one of the most ridiculous statements on Facebook.  A child questioning should they go to school or not because it is ” Gay Day Yep you read that right!

This makes me angry.  Not because I don’t support Gay persons but to force a child to choose if they support the situation or not when they themselves may not understand all the factors involved.  It is damned if they do and damn if they don’t go to school.  The might be criticized for going to school and supporting or criticized for attending school.  This is not fair to the children.  Since the school and WORLD is so bent on supporting Gay person what about supporting straight persons?

Seriously what about the support of people that are attracted to the opposite sex.  Now is the time to start to fight for the right to be straight.  The industry has forced this view so much like people just go around thinking about who is gay and who is not.  Well I don’t I am from the generation of not caring.  Your sexual preference is none of my damn business.  It is your choice not mine or my children.  This is out of control, they already want to teach children under 5 that two boys kissing is ok and that most definitely is NOT okay.  This is a parents decision not the schools or activist fighting for Gay rights.  How is it right to teach other people children that this is okay because this is what you want to do.  It is a parents choice when and how to teach a child about kissing at all and who the hell they should be kissing.  I don’t care the school used animals the message HIGHLY INAPPROPRIATE!

People have gotten so lost in the fight to support Gay people and their rights that our right to be straight has been put in jeopardy.  Laugh at these words if you want to but pay attention to commercials, clothes, and your surroundings.  What is on the bill for straight people?  Have you ever had a straight day at school, work, the WORLD? No, but we sure do have all that for Gay supporters! Think about it!

I don’t care what your sexual preference is as long as it doesn’t affect me, our forced upon children.

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Stop Ignorance!

Stop the ignorance!

We need to take a stand and stop being ignorant.  Stop giving people a chance to call you ignorant or view you as an ignorant person.  As a nation we need to stand together and fight the parallels of the older generations or people with misguided information.

African Americans, blacks however you want to label yourself stop giving people the opportunity to call you ignorant.  It was bought to my attention the other day that most videos posted are of black on black fights.  Why wonder why people are viewing our race or young generation as nothing more than ignorant fools that are killing each other off anyway.  They no longer need to vastly spread racism and kill us off because our own people are doing it for them.  Does a heated argument really have to turn into murder?  Do you need to be in the street fighting?  Better yet the person with the camera do you really need to put your people on blast like that.  That shit not cute, excuse my french.

Stop ignorance, make a stand today to fight against it.  Stay in school, go back to school, start school.  Stop fighting in the streets and videotaping it! Stop giving people a reason to call you ignorant and dumb.  Prove to the people you are intelligent, you have a purpose, prove you have just as much of a right to be here as anybody else.  Arm yourself with the right tools of success instead of a gun.  Teach our youth street life is not the life.  Stand up, rise up, make a statement.  I am not ignorant and I too deserve to be here.  I am just as if not more educated than you.  Drive the people crazy with the STOP IGNORANCE MOVEMENT!

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Put this link into your browser and LISTEN to the 911 calls including Zimmerman.  I said it before and I will say it again GEORGE ZIMMERMAN KILLED Trayvon Martin.  Zimmerman brother CLAIMS that he is saying Trayvon attavked him as he was going back to his car. LIAR!!  Perhaps he forgot he told police Trayvon was RUNNING AWAY!  If he ran away from you how is it self defense?  If someone runs from you there is a couple of things.  They are running away to AVOID confrontation, running away from a strange man following.  Zimmerman YOU followed him, saying they always get away.  What was he getting away from.  Oh yeah that woul have been you.  Zimmerman clearly said Trayvon Martin was running away so how was he running away and attacking Zimmerman at his car?  Furthermore, did Zimmerman drive his vehicle in the back yard?  How did he “attack” (sarcasm) you at your “vehicle” and end up lying DEAD in the back yard?

Th screams heard are horrifying.  TWO experts have said this is NOT Zimmerman yelling for help.  This is the worst case by far of trying to get a COLD BLOODED KILLER off!  If Zimmerman had been laying there dead from his own gun, the tapes proving it was Martin screamng, and Martin claiming self defense, THE POILICE WOULD HAVE ARRESTED HIM AND HELD HIM TILL THEY WERE SATISFIED OR EVIDENCE PROVED OTHERWISE.

This is discouraging of our legal system.  Why the effort to make Zimmerman innocent when clearly he is not?  The media or police and team Zimmerman are trying to drag Trayvon name through the mud.  I don’t care if he had been in trouble and was sent to his father at that time.  That FATAL night he wasn’t a troubled kid.  That night he was simply a child walking back HOME.  Zimmerman and his brother have not spoken in years.  All these team Zimmerman are claiming what Trayvon (who can’t defend himself due to the fact he is DEAD!) said that fatal night.  How convenient for Zimmerman team that they can say whatever they want to because a dead person can not be questioned.  What can CLEARLY be heard is those screams for help.

Imagine that a stranger has approached you, ran after you, fight with you, you notice he has a gun.  Hmmm what do you do yell for help and if possible get the gun away from that person.  By the way Zimmerman was on top of Trayvon Martin when he was shot in the chest.  Self defense?  I call it what it is MURDER of a child.  Soon as the gun went off the screams immediately stopped.  It is heartbreaking that the police department are fighting so hard to cover up their mistakes by down playing the situation and making it seem like Zimmerman was right.


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George Zimmerman is it Murder?

Picture this you are strolling along to the store minding your business.  Someone decides you are a threat from a distance as you may not have been seen before in the neighborhood.  Unaware you are a threat you continue on to go to the store.  Now as a good person and lead person in the neighborhood watch calls the police on you because you are suspicious and don’t fit in.  Now you are returning from the store back in the nice gated community.  Before you know it you are faced with a barrel threatening to end your life.  Your life is ended but your killer does not go to jail.

Now put this into play folks a 17 yr old black boy named Trayvon Martin went to a store to buy candy for his younger brother.  So in one pocket he has skittles and the other pocket a can of arizona ice tea.  Dangerous right?  George Zimmerman self appointed white male under age 30 views this teenager as a threat.  Mr. Zimmerman called the police on the child and was told by Sanford police not to follow the kid.  He followed him anyway.  They claimed he may have been trying to get an address and keep an eye on him.  First offense you was told not to follow him.  Secondly Zimmerman followed the walking home teenager in his SUV.  Already the boy was at a disadvantage.

Martin noticed the SUV following him and what would anybody say? What’s your problem?  Still dangerous though huh?  Trayvon Martin was considered a threat but yet George Zimmerman followed and approached him.  Zimmerman claims he shot him in self defense.  Ok if this  looser was just wanting to keep an EYE on him then why in the hell did he come out in his SUV with a loaded 9mm.  Sounds to me like Zimmerman had other intentions.

Reports say Zimmerman had a bloody nose and back of head. Hmm you freakin idiot you can’t roll up on someone especially a youngster and think they not gone tap that ass.  Sounds like if it is true Martin kicked his ass.  Martin was defending himself it is unfortunate the skittles or ice tea couldn’t fire a bullet.  His skittles and tea where no match for the loaded 9mm gun that ended his life.  Oh and add this to it, Zimmerman has not been arrested because he studied criminal law for 4 yrs. and has a clean background.  Martin background was also clean as Zimmerman but no study of law.

Florida fucked up law “stand your ground” is the reason this child murderer is not in jail.  The only reason you need to justify killing someone in thIS “REPUBLICAN” state is you are reasonably scared.  Bull shit!  Guess this explains why the white lady went and got security on my three yr old son.  she was afraid of her son getting beat up.  So this lady could of shot my baby when her son started it but my son continued to finish it everytime he saw him.  No I don’t condone fighting but damn where is the line in this state?  How many innocent skittle toting kids are going to die before they realize the ridiculousness of the law.  It is giving the right to kill without a true self defense

My heart goes out to this family.  A child going to the store visiting from Miami to spend time with his father and siblings gone.  Gone because a hothead couldn’t follow the law.  How long did it take for the police to arrive for Zimmerman to get in his SUV follow this child home possibly fight and shoot him dead?  Whee is the justice in this case.  No arrest, no answers, protection of George Zimmerman, Trayvon Martin dead.  SKITTLES VS GUN doesn’t seem fair.  Kid was honestly the wrong color in a gated community where he wasn’t suspicious just getting candy and tea before returning home to his father home.  REST IN PEACE AND MAY GOD SOLVE THIS UNTIMELY DEATH AND BRING JUSTICE FOR YOUR FAMILY.

Stop with the teen mom shows!!!!!!!!!

We need to stop supporting these girls and having children as teenagers.  Ok we all know teen pregnancy exist.  Does it mean we need to give them a paycheck because they have children at young ages?

This is exactly what we are doing!  Why is teen mom 2 getting another season to pay these girls to encourage more teen pregnancy.  This is a message to young girls that its ok to have babies as a baby because MTV will pay you to air yourself on TV.  You not only get a fat paycheck but you become a celebrity which then can lead to us paying you more money, so go head out and have unprotected sex and get knocked up, oh yea don’t worry about graduating High School either.  This has got to stop!

The wrong message is being sent, if the show showed the parallels of parenting and the difficulty of carrying a child because not every pregnancy is smooth, delivery, and the night time feedings it would be different.  Instead the show shows how these (some) immature girls got pregnant and that they will just do it again with the same dude or move on to another dude and not give a rats ass about the affects it has on the child.  MTV supports teen pregnancy as long as it brings drama.  The more fucked up you are the more chance you have at being a star.

Boycott this damn show and what it represents.  MTV SMH!!!!!!! Shame on you for the message you are sending.

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